Thinking about myself

I've been thinking and I believe that how I am is that if I fall in love with someone and they like me back, then yeah I'd be interesting in doing some sexual things with them if they give me consent for it, but I don't need sex and if there's no fun or love at all when we do it then I definitely don't want to do it. Love and fun is a relationship is what matters most to me, and I wouldn't like any sexual experience I have to be merely sexual. Also there would most likely be babysteps that I'd want to make before "jumping into big water" so I probably won't give consent till such things are done, but yeah. I've just been thinking about that.